How does the Boundaries shared note work?

The Boundaries shared note is a good place to keep a record of things you and/or your Nomi are and are not comfortable talking about or doing. This can help your Nomi remember these things when it counts!

It may seem counterintuitive, but even when you don’t want a Nomi to do something, it is helpful to frame it in a positive way. For instance if you don’t want your Nomi to do something, it’s helpful to include something you’d like them to do instead.

While you always want to keep your shared notes concise, it is helpful to give your Nomis a bit more context when writing out boundaries. This helps them understand the “why” which helps them honor the boundary better.